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Aw friend, I am sorry you are going through this. That is a very rough situation to be in. I’d feel frustrated, hurt and angry too. It’s like salt in the wound that you warned him and he didn’t listen nor have the value judgment to make the smart choice (not to do that!).
Have you guys thought about counseling?
Jeni, I’m so sorry about this. While I want to say that if you have a child you feel is yours – even if biologically they’re not – you ache for them, the way he went about it is unacceptable. It sounds like on his salary he could certainly have hired a private investigator to do the same exact thing without jeopardizing his job in an economy that’s tight – especially for financial services positions.
It is little consolation to have been right at a time like this. Take some time to think about what happens next, but I’m with you when you decide.
Jeni,
Sometimes I wish life had a backspace. I would backspace that happening to you and Michael. Ahhh. I feel like when things like that happen it puts us smack in the face of accountability. Maybe it will be a growing lesson for Michael.
I am sorry you are now evaluating where that leaves you guys. I agree with Sizzle about counseling. It might be what you guys need to process it.
Jeni,
I don’t have a password, but I’m worried by the comments that something is wrong. I hope you and Michael are okay. Thinking about you both.
Sunny
I’m reading thinking, no no no no… I feel so shocked, I can’t even fathom what you feel. I know EXACTLY what you mean when you say that being right means you suffer most.
I wish I didn’t live on the other side of the country.
I don’t have a password either so I don’t know what’s going on, but it doesn’t sound good from the comments. You know where to find me if you need me. And don’t hesitate. I’m here for you.
Ok, so I can tell that the comment show up even when the posts don’t, so I’ll keep it brief. Being in the biz for 16 years, I get the issue. I really do. But I know it’s possible to make good choices no matter what the temptation, so I’m a little peeved at Mr. Man.
My two cents is – hold on to the hope in your heart. This is going to be a great year for you. And my other two cents is – I think counseling is awesome.
xo, babe.
Oh, wow. I am so sorry.